On Sunday, January 26, Ezibeleni Life Centre launched its groundbreaking ‘Men in Change Champion Program’. This innovative program aims to shape a new generation of men who are responsible, respectful, and empowered to make a positive difference in their communities.
The event, themed ‘A Dignified Journey into Manhood’, drew over 150 young initiates to the Ethiopian Episcopal Church in Nemato. The atmosphere was filled with a sense of excitement and anticipation hanging in the air.
The Principal of Kuyasa Combined School, Lulamile Mxube, delivered a powerful keynote address. He urged the young men to embark on a journey of self-discovery and transformation. “The community will judge you,” he warned. “But make sure you disappoint them – by being better, by being different.”
Mxube emphasised the critical importance of mental health, particularly among young men. “We need to see the suicide rate amongst men decrease,” he stressed. “Taking care of yourself means prioritising your mental health. Be calm, be gentle, and don’t be afraid to show vulnerability.”
He encouraged the young men to speak out about their struggles and seek help when needed. “Men do cry, and it’s time we normalized that,” he said. “We need to break the cycle of toxic masculinity and become better role models for our communities.”
Simphiwe Hlangana, one of the event organisers from Ezibeleni Life Centre, shared startling statistics about HIV/AIDS in South Africa:
– Over 8 million people in South Africa are living with HIV/AIDS. (Source: UNAIDS)
– Approximately 200,000 people are infected with HIV every year. (Source: SANAC)
– The HIV prevalence rate among young people (15-24 years) is 7.7%. (Source: HSRC)
– Only 64% of people living with HIV/AIDS in South Africa are receiving antiretroviral treatment. (Source: UNAIDS)
“These statistics are a wake-up call for all of us,” Hlangana said. “Young men, it’s crucial that you know your status, practice safe sex, and avoid becoming a statistic.”
Ward 8, Councillor Ayanda Bukani brought the event to a close, leaving the young men with a profound challenge:
“As men, you carry a great responsibility to free our society from the shackles of patriarchy. Protect women and children and be the change you want to see. Remember, you have the power to shape your own destiny and become champions of change.”
The ‘Men in Change Champion Program’ is more than just a programme – it’s a movement. A movement to redefine masculinity, challenge toxic norms, and empower a new generation of men to be better.
- This article was first published in Talk of the Town, January 30, 2025. The newspaper serving the communities of Ndlambe and the Sunshine Coast, with a weekly wrap of Makhanda news, is available at stores from early on Thursdays.
